Organizing folders for your out of town guests with a “reality gaming” twist

* imagine an analog version of foursquare, but with much more personal style

Writing your vows to each other to be expressed poetry-slam style

* dig into that dusty right brain and bring out your inner thesbian

Leave mini bubble-bottles in the seats for guests to blow during the aisle-walk

* a personal mantra: everything’s better with bubbles

Create a signature cocktail for guests to enjoy upon entering the reception

* homemade limoncello, Violet Hour knockoffs, or absinthe that would raise Picasso from his grave

Burn CD compilations of your combined favorite songs for guests to take home

* where else could you put Nick Drake and Beyonce on the same mix-tape?

SLUMBER PARTY

* afterall, it has been way too long to remember how fun it could be

YOGA RETREAT

* for re-establishing stronger connections with your girls

PAINT BALL

* just in time for a Charlie’s Angels resurrection

DAY SPA

* does it get any better than a foot massage and champagne in the sauna?

2ND CHANCE PROM (for the guys + girls together)

* break out that puffy-sleeved meringue-colored 80’s prom dress

Amalfi Coast: Italy

* romance is driving a Puegeot from seaside town to town while sharing fresh blood oranges

Krabi, Chiang Mai, Koh Phangan: Thailand

* snorkling, elephant-riding, and maybe even a reception redux at the Full Moon Party

Las Fallas Festival: Valencia, Spain

* you’ve likely never even heard of it...and you’ll wonder why, after you experience it

Wine Country: Sonoma, California

* bungalow resorts, vintage bikerides through the countryside, pinots to die for

Turks + Caicos: Virgin Islands

* less than a 3-hour flight and you’re in an nearly-undiscovered Caribbean ode to relaxation